1. Are we sure of anything in life?
2. Do you know if your spouse or significant other loves you, and the love will remain throughout the years?
3. I know or at least hope someone loves me. But does he still love me 1 week from now, 1 year from now?
4. Will I resent him if the love is no longer there?
5. Will I still love him with the same intensity?
6. Should I feel guilty if I no longer love him as much?
7. Is he a bad guy if he stops loving me?
8. How can feelings change so much over time?
9. Is it of my doing?
10. Is it because we all grow and things change?
11. Is it wrong to grow and change?
12. Should we have remained the same as the day we first met? which means growth is not encouraged or even suppressed?

But we’re all part of nature, with dawn and sunset, with flowers blooming in summer and snow falling in winter, and trees budding and leaves changing colors. Even our physical body changes with time. So, if change is part of life, why do we fear and resist it?

I find that change is unavoidable, and sometimes necessary. The caterpillar squeezes through the tight cocoon to change into the beautiful butterfly. It could choose to stay in the uncomforatble cocoon and be forever the butterfly-in-waiting :) Its choice!

Here today, gone tomorrow. We live on borrowed times, so please love with all your heart, laugh till it hurts, smile at silly things, see the good in everyone …

My answers to the above:

1. Nope, the only thing certain in life is change.
2. Nope.
3. Maybe not.
4. Nope.
5. If nothing changes, maybe.
6. Nope.
7. Nope.
8. We grow.
9. I grow.
10. Yup.
11. Nope. Otherwise, we’re still hunting animals and farming for foods.
12. Nope. Can you stop a river from flowing, or a plant from growing? I rather die than not be able to grow.